CONFLICT!

Acts 15:1-12

Some men came down from Judea and began teaching the brothers, “Unless you are circumcised according to the custom of Moses, you cannot be saved.” [2] And after Paul and Barnabas had a heated argument and debate with them, the brothers determined that Paul and Barnabas and some others of them should go up to Jerusalem to the apostles and elders concerning this issue. [3] Therefore, after being sent on their way by the church, they were passing through both Phoenicia and Samaria, describing in detail the conversion of the Gentiles, and they were bringing great joy to all the brothers and sisters. [4] When they arrived in Jerusalem, they were received by the church, the apostles, and the elders, and they reported all that God had done with them. [5] But some of the sect of the Pharisees who had believed stood up, saying, “It is necessary to circumcise them and to direct them to keep the Law of Moses.” [6] The apostles and the elders came together to look into this matter. [7] After there had been much debate, Peter stood up and said to them, “Brothers, you know that in the early days God made a choice among you, that by my mouth the Gentiles would hear the word of the gospel and believe. [8] And God, who knows the heart, testified to them giving them the Holy Spirit, just as He also did to us; [9] and He made no distinction between us and them, cleansing their hearts by faith. [10] Since this is the case, why are you putting God to the test by placing upon the neck of the disciples a yoke which neither our forefathers nor we have been able to bear? [11] But we believe that we are saved through the grace of the Lord Jesus, in the same way as they also are.” [12] All the people kept silent, and they were listening to Barnabas and Paul as they were relating all the signs and wonders that God had done through them among the Gentiles.

 

This passage discusses the disagreement between the apostles regarding circumcision. Conflict is a part of life, and it’s actually important because it shows the strength of our relationships. In simple terms, conflict is a clash or disagreement between individuals or groups, often arising from opposing interests, goals, viewpoints, or principles. It can manifest as a fight or struggle, whether external or within us, particularly when it comes to our spiritual versus carnal desires. God’s teachings often differ from human beliefs. Sometimes, what seems right from a human perspective might actually be wrong when compared to divine truth. As Christians, we’re encouraged to live peacefully, as advised in Romans 12:18, but when conflicts do arise, we should handle them according to Matthew 18:15. Conflict can’t always be avoided; in fact, the Bible suggests that it can serve as a chance for personal and spiritual growth, pushing us to become more Christlike rather than just comfortable.

When we apply God’s principles, conflicts can strengthen our relationships and deepen our faith instead of causing division or prolonged struggles. Avoiding conflict can lead to dishonesty; instead of speaking the truth in love, we end up lying in love as per Ephesians 4:13. Conflict is a process that can be managed through negotiation, mediation, or other means, and it can happen between anyone, including fellow believers, as illustrated in our story. The church grappled with how to respond to Gentiles embracing Christianity—a challenge that still affects the church today. We’re often caught between man’s doctrines and God’s, with conflicting opinions leading to the divisions we observe. What do you align with? Do you agree or disagree? Everyone has opinions, and many of these are the root of our divisions.

Unfortunately, these divisions can become significant issues. But we can look to scripture for a model of how the church can approach conflict: we can engage in debates that are formal yet easy-going, grounded in godliness, and aimed at finding solutions. This involves genuine listening, as James 1:19 advises, and the freedom to resolve differences.

Regardless of what’s causing conflict in our lives, it’s crucial to ensure it doesn’t lead to division. Strong friendships can endure anything if conflicts are approached wisely. Conflicts are inevitable; they can bring psychological pain, emotional distress, and even physical distance. Yet, they should be opportunities for healing, not destruction. Not all conflicts are bad—some can actually be constructive. We need to find common ground in resolving the situations we face. The scripture clearly states that two cannot walk together unless they agree, as noted in Amos 3:3. Ecclesiastes 4:9 also emphasizes the benefits of working together. Bringing together many individuals with different opinions can often spark conflict. That’s why, as Colossians 3:2 advises, we shouldn’t focus on earthly matters but rather on what is above. The things above are eternal, while earthly concerns are temporary. So, our opinions, emotions, and thoughts are all fleeting. But the word and guidance of the Spirit are eternal.

When we allow our carnal desires to fuel conflict within the church, we’re essentially inviting division. In contrast, if we approach conflict through the lens of scripture and let the Spirit lead, we can mend fences and build lasting connections. Conflict isn’t inherently negative; it just needs to be guided by the right principles. In this scenario, circumcision was a point of contention. God required it for the Jews, but it wasn’t necessary for the Gentiles. It’s important to remember that circumcision isn’t the path to salvation—Jesus is. Yet, there were those who tried to suggest that circumcision was a prerequisite for coming to Christ.

Today, the church sometimes puts up similar barriers: if you don’t meet this or that requirement, you can’t access certain blessings or spaces. Conflict isn’t the aim of Jesus’ sacrifice; He came for unity, peace, love, joy, and hope. These qualities don’t breed conflict. What does create conflict is pride, selfishness, and self-centeredness. We can experience conflicts that lead to resolution, connection, and unity, ultimately benefiting the kingdom of God. However, we should avoid anything that incites conflict. Remember, conflicts can lead to division or growth, so let the Spirit of God dwell richly within you.

REFLECTION QUESTIONS

-        When was the last time a disagreement in faith pushed personal or spiritual growth?

-        How can honest conversations and godly listening, as suggested in James 1:19, prevent division instead of causing it?

-        How can believers discern when to stand firm on a principle and when to accommodate for the sake of peace and unity?

PRAYER: Lord, thank you for the lessons from the conflict over circumcision. Help me to approach disagreements and differences with a spirit of humility, truth, and love. Teach my heart to seek unity, not division; to be quick to listen and slow to speak or become angry in Jesus’ name, Amen.

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