CHILD FRIENDLY BEING SINGLE!

1 Corinthians 7:32-37 GNT

I would like you to be free from worry. An unmarried man concerns himself with the Lord's work, because he is trying to please the Lord. [33] But a married man concerns himself with worldly matters, because he wants to please his wife; [34] and so he is pulled in two directions. An unmarried woman or a virgin concerns herself with the Lord's work, because she wants to be dedicated both in body and spirit; but a married woman concerns herself with worldly matters, because she wants to please her husband. [35] I am saying this because I want to help you. I am not trying to put restrictions on you. Instead, I want you to do what is right and proper, and to give yourselves completely to the Lord's service without any reservation. [36] In the case of an engaged couple who have decided not to marry: if the man feels that he is not acting properly toward the young woman and if his passions are too strong and he feels that they ought to marry, then they should get married, as he wants to. There is no sin in this. [37] But if a man, without being forced to do so, has firmly made up his mind not to marry, and if he has his will under complete control and has already decided in his own mind what to do-then he does well not to marry the young woman.

 

 

Memory Verse: “I want you to be free from worries.” – 1 Corinthians 7:32

The Big Question: To Marry or Not to Marry?

In today’s world, being single can feel like a big dilemma. People often ask, “When are you getting married?” or “Why are you still single?” Sometimes, those questions make singles feel like something is wrong with them. But the Bible says something very different!

Paul explains that both marriage and singleness are gifts from God. He says, “I wish that all were as I am… but each has his own gift from God.” (verses 7-8). That means being single is not a punishment—it’s a gift!

More time for God: When you’re single, you can focus on God without distractions. Married people have family responsibilities, which is good, but it takes time.

Freedom to serve: Singles can travel, volunteer, and serve God in ways that might be harder for married people.

Protection from wrong choices: Sometimes, staying single for a season saves you from rushing into a bad marriage. Proverbs 21:9 warns that it’s better to live alone than with someone who brings constant conflict.

The Pressure is Real

In church and culture, marriage is often seen as the ultimate goal. Singles hear questions like:

“Where’s your husband?” “Why aren’t you married yet?” 

These questions can make you feel incomplete—but here’s the truth: You are complete in Christ, not in a relationship.

Is It Wrong to Want Marriage?

No! Marriage is a beautiful gift from God (Proverbs 18:22). But it’s not the solution to all problems. If God is not at the centre of your life, marriage won’t fix that. Two self-focused people can’t make a God-cantered marriage.

Instead of rushing, pray for God’s timing and the right person. Genesis 2:23 says God brings the right match—bone of your bone and flesh of your flesh. Until then, use your single season to grow closer to Him and serve others.

REFLECTION QUESTIONS

*   Do I see singleness as a gift or a burden?

*   How can I use this season to serve God more fully?

*   Have I felt pressured by others about marriage? How did I respond?

*   What steps can I take this week to deepen my relationship with God?

PRAYER: Father, thank You that my worth is in You, not in my relationship status. Help me to trust Your plan for my life. Whether single or married, let me glorify You and find joy in Christ alone. Amen.

Shalom

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