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2 Corinthians 10:12 GNT

Of course we would not dare classify ourselves or compare ourselves with those who rate themselves so highly. How stupid they are! They make up their own standards to measure themselves by, and they judge themselves by their own standards!

 

Do you know what it means to compare? It means looking at someone else and saying, “I want to be like them,” or “I am better than them.” We do this every day—at school, at home, even in church.

But God does not want us to compare ourselves with others. His standard is the best, not ours or anyone else’s. The Bible says in Psalm 40:5 that no one can be compared to the Lord!

When we compare, we often feel sad or jealous. We forget the good things God has given us and only see what others have. That’s why Theodore Roosevelt said, “Comparison is the thief of joy.”

God made each of us special. He wants you to be you, not someone else. In Romans 12:6, the Bible says everyone has different gifts. Your gift is not the same as your friend’s gift—and that’s okay!

Even in church, some people compare pastors or singers. But 1 Corinthians 12 teaches that every gift comes from God for a reason. So don’t compare your talents or blessings with others. Instead, thank God for what He gave you and use it well.

Why is comparison bad?

It makes us proud or jealous.

It steals our joy.

It stops us from loving and helping others.

God wants us to live in unity, not competition (John 17:23). So let’s stop comparing and start loving!

REFLECTION QUESTIONS

1.  How does today’s verse change the way I see myself and others?

2.  When do I compare myself with others the most?

3.  How does comparing make me feel about God’s blessings?

4.  Am I looking at Jesus as my example, or other people? (Galatians 6:4)

PRAYER: Lord, please take away pride and jealousy from my heart. Help me to love others and live in unity. Teach me to follow Jesus and not compare myself with anyone else. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Shalom!