SPIRITUAL CONFRONTATIONS!

Galatians 6:1-2 AMPC

Brethren, if any person is overtaken in misconduct or sin of any sort, you who are spiritual [who are responsive to and controlled by the Spirit] should set him right and restore and reinstate him, without any sense of superiority and with all gentleness, keeping an attentive eye on yourself, lest you should be tempted also. [2] Bear (endure, carry) one another's burdens and troublesome moral faults, and in this way fulfill and observe perfectly the law of Christ (the Messiah) and complete what is lacking [in your obedience to it].

 

What is confrontation and why is it so difficult? Confrontation is the clashing of forces or ideas and conflicting opinions between parties. It is a common aspect of human relationships that the Bible addresses with love, truth, and reconciliation. The biblical approach to confrontation is about more than just resolving conflicts; it’s about strengthening relationships and promoting spiritual growth. you can be confronted but in Christ, you cannot be defeated according to Ephesians 6:16.

Even if one is not spiritual, they are still morally obliged to confront unacceptable behaviour or actions from those around them. Everyone is susceptible to bad behaviour, some unknowingly offending, while others may intentionally create conflict. It’s this group of intentionally bad-mannered and contentious people we’re instructed to confront, especially if their actions are habitual.

Proverbs 27:6-7 instructs us to confront or rebuke one who is acting contrary, encouraging that an open rebuke gives the person a chance to reflect on their course. We can’t love others and be their keepers if we only see problems but do nothing to help. If confrontation is necessary, ask God to give you the power, love, and self-discipline to say what you must. Confrontation is difficult, yes! But it must be done with love and compassion, and we should be honoured that someone cares enough about us to want what is best for us.

We all know that one person—a friend, colleague, family member, or neighbour—who needs to be confronted over a character, attitude, or manner, but we shy away from confronting them to avoid rocking the boat. However, Hebrews 10:24 says we must confront people to motivate them to do better. Most people avoid confrontation, but as unpleasant as it is, we must engage in it to avoid bigger issues and to redeem the one going astray. When we discover a situation that needs addressing, we must deal with it immediately to avoid it becoming a stronghold, ensuring we do so at the right time with the right motive and spirit.

Paul confronted the Corinthians in 1 Corinthians 5 over the issue of immorality. He could have ignored the problem, but he addressed it head-on when the church leaders failed to confront it. The goal or purpose of confrontation, especially healthy or positive confrontation, is not to punish but to redeem and restore. We need clarification of the problem before we can confront it to better understand why and to know what to do to effect change and improve the relationship or situation. Scripture is an effective source of wise counsel according to 2 Timothy 3:16.

We should be bold to stand on the instructions of the Bible and confront conflicting situations that require change. We must never confront anyone without love. As Proverbs 10:12 puts it, confrontation without love is hatred that will stir up offense and quarrels. Conflict will always arise, but how it’s dealt with determines if the offender is redeemed and restored or excommunicated according to Titus 3:10.

Conflicts will never end, but choosing not to confront problems that need addressing will only pile them up until they become an explosive ball of resentment and quarrel. It is natural to look out for our own interests, but the key is to take that same level of concern for ourselves and apply it to the interests of others by confronting a problem or situation that is detrimental to all. As Paul says in Philippians 2:3-4, we mustn’t be selfish. It’s counterproductive to the genuine care and love of others that may stop us from confronting them in a required situation. Let’s respectfully indicate to those around us when the desired action is needed by confronting them in love.

REFLECTION QUESTIONS

·       In what areas of my life have I avoided necessary confrontation, even though Scripture encourages addressing issues lovingly and promptly?

·       When I confront others, are my motives rooted in love, restoration, and spiritual growth—rather than frustration, judgment, or self‑interest?

·       How can I better allow the Holy Spirit to guide my words, timing, and attitude so that my confrontations reflect God’s compassion and desire for reconciliation?

PRAYER: Dear Lord, teach me to confront openly, but without quarrelling and with kindness, teaching effectively and gently, with patience. In Jesus’ name, amen.

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